Before finalizing an estate plan, you should consider whether or not you will share it with others. It can be difficult for some people, especially the elderly, to share all this financial and estate information while they are alive. When to share the plan is also something to consider carefully. Everyone who has access to these documents can read them.
- As you can imagine, that may cause a big uproar if the beneficiaries don’t agree with your choices.
- Even if only the executor has access, the contents may leak out.
- You may even be pressured to make changes you would prefer not to.
- It is also possible that sharing is one of the best decisions you ever made.
With Whom and What to Share
There are many levels of sharing, so decide the one you are most comfortable with. And even though this may not seem like a problem now, it may become an insurmountable hurdle if you have not left behind a way for your executor or beneficiaries learn about or find your estate plan.
Not doing it at all is a poor option. But if you don’t share your will, make sure you leave behind an easily findable document that has the location of the will and other documents that represent your assets. |
The minimum you should do is share the location of the documents. The better organized the easier it will be easier for the necessary people to identify and distribute your assets.
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Once you have all of your assets organized in one place you should share the location with your executor or trustee.
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You may even want to share the locations with your family at that point, the more people that know where the documents or files are, the less likely they are to get misplaced. As you may guess, sharing it with your family or other beneficiaries may not be straightforward. There are pros and cons to each option.
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So, no matter how reluctant you are to share, whether it is now, just before you pass on, or in a document to be opened after you die, it is crucial to do this as soon as possible. If you become unable to relay any or all of this information in a rational way to an estate planner, your executor, or your family, the court will be deciding on how to distribute your estate and a lot of your estate may be lost. |