Updated: August 7, 2023
After you have had the “Conversation,” you should immediately proceed with creating a plan and documenting it in the form of an advance directive (AD). An AD is a legal document that answers the “what if” questions and is meant to guide family and healthcare professionals to provide the care you would or would not prefer in urgent medical situations when you are unable to give consent. You must be at least 18 years old to create one.
Advance directives include important information about your treatment preferences for critical end-of-life medical care. In addition, an advance directive could significantly reduce any anxiety, indecisiveness, and guilt loved ones may have from needing to make decisions without this guidance from you. A prior discussion could aid the healthcare proxy in making the decision most appropriate for you.
As with any legal document, it must be done correctly and the court can have the final say on whether it is valid or not. Laws about advance directives are present in the 1990 Patient Self Determination Act.
Most states allow you to create out-of-hospital advance directives, including living wills, Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (POLST), and Do-Not-Resuscitate (DNR) orders and healthcare proxies. However, there is variation in the name and content of the documents used, who is involved in creating and certifying them, how strictly they are enforced, where they can be placed, etc. Some states require you to renew your living will on a regular basis. If so, you need to know how often that is and what you need to do.
Your choice of a healthcare proxy or healthcare power of attorney should be considered at the same time as your advance directive. This could either be a separate document or combined with the Living Will. Desire to become an organ donor is sometimes considered an advance directive, but is usually a separate document. The directives will apply whether you are in the hospital or elsewhere.
If advance directives are not available, decisions will usually be made by substituted judgment (what the patient would most likely choose) and/or best interest (what is best for the patient when choices are not known).
Another consideration if you do not have these documents is that not all states will appoint family members to be your healthcare surrogate and allow them to make medical decisions if you are incapacitated and mentally incompetent. Some states may require clear evidence of your wishes if you do not have a designated healthcare proxy and a family member is named as your healthcare surrogate.
Once you have created these documents, store them in an accessible computer or physical file. Make multiple copies and distribute them to any healthcare professional involved in your care and any family member or other persons who may possibly be in a position to make an emergency medical decision. It is important for you to place them in your medical record and put others in obvious locations in your house for emergency responders to see.
Use a legal professional or be sure to use state-specific laws and documents.
Although advanced directives are optional, the 1990 Patient Self-Determination Act requires hospitals, skilled nursing facilities, home health agencies, hospice programs, and health maintenance organizations to ask patients if they have an advance directive, recognize them if they do, or provide information about advance directives in their state if they don’t.
Like every aspect of advance care planning, these documents are best created when you are younger and, more importantly, before a crisis situation prevents you from doing so. They should be updated as circumstances change and can be revoked at any time.
It is best if you check in with your family and healthcare provider before you put these directives in place. The process could bring out any hidden concerns and clarify any misunderstandings you may have about specific medical conditions or interventions.
This is a legally binding document that describes your wishes, typically for medical care, to ensure that everyone, especially your Healthcare Proxy, is aware of them in the hope that they are carried out exactly as you would want when you are terminally ill or permanently unconscious. It only goes into effect if at least one, but usually two, doctors deem you both incapacitated and mentally incompetent, such as with severe dementia, or otherwise unable to speak or communicate on your own behalf.
As long as you can make requests, your word gives consent despite what is in your living will. If you are only temporarily unable to communicate, your healthcare proxy may speak for you without resorting to the living will, but they should use it as a guideline.
A living will will only be used by your healthcare providers, your healthcare proxy, and family if you are unable to make medical decisions.
Although it is not possible to anticipate every scenario, try and make the living will as comprehensive as possible. There are many things that are commonly considered, although most situations will not come up until the appropriate time or not at all. To begin, you should consider what you value most about your life, what you hope for most regarding your death, and how it may affect your preferences. Specific things to consider are, if you would want:
To create a living will you can go to an attorney or you can download your state’s Living Will or Advance Healthcare Directive form, fill it out as directed, and sign it. You will either need your living will:
Once it is created, the advance directive should be printed out and stored in an obvious location — not a locked safe or safety deposit box — as well as shared with your family, friends, legal representative, and any healthcare provider closely involved in your medical care. Copies of the advance directive given to your agents are just as acceptable as the original.
While you can use your living will to express all of your wishes about any future medical care, many people also create specific documents for life-sustaining treatment and resuscitation.
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Advance Directive/Advance Care Plan/Living Will forms
The POLST, or state-specific equivalent (MOST [Medical Orders for Scope of Treatment], MOLST [Medical Orders for Life Sustaining Treatment], POST [Physician Orders for Scope of Treatment], or TPOPP [Transportable Physician Orders for Patient Preferences]), is a separate legal document that is specific to life-threatening situations. Unlike a living will, which only contains requests, a POLST contains physician orders that other healthcare professionals must honor.
The document must be filled out by your primary practitioner. They will determine if a POLST is appropriate for you, usually if you’re terminally ill or extremely elderly and frail and are mentally capable of making such a request. Your healthcare proxy can also request one to be filled out for you. Many states prohibit POLSTs for otherwise healthy people. Healthcare providers rarely, if ever, will sign them under these circumstances, since the chance of these measures saving your life is too high.
For when you are in cardiac arrest and not breathing, you can specify the more specific Do-Not-Resuscitate (DNR) order described below.
POLSTs are usually printed on bright-colored paper to be easily spotted. Some states specify the color so EMTs know what to look for.
The POLST should specify what life-saving or resuscitation measures, if any, may be used by responding healthcare providers if you are seriously ill, under what circumstances, and whether or not you want to go to a hospital or be put in an Intensive Care Unit (ICU). You should also express your wishes about life-sustaining treatments if you are at risk of dying with little to no hope of recovery. Measures you should think about include:
You can state your preference about other aspects of care such as not drawing blood, comfort care only, no transfers to acute care facilities, or no vital signs.
For information about programs in individual states see the National POLST Paradigm Program Designations website.
This is similar to the POLST, but only applies if you are found unresponsive without breathing and/or heartbeat. Like a POLST, you can include the DNR order in your living will and it must be signed by you and your physician, may be restricted to when you’re terminally ill or extremely elderly and frail, and mentally are capable of making such a request. In some states you may need witnesses or a notary.
Without a DNR, emergency responders and healthcare professionals are obliged to do everything possible to revive you. This may include chest compressions, intubation and ventilation, electric shock, and heart stimulating drugs.
While there may be instances where CPR is appropriate, it is rarely successful outside of a hospital setting, can result in broken ribs or other trauma, and is not really meant to try and postpone a terminal event.
Unlike a POLST order, a DNR may not always be honored by all EMTs, and they are not available in all states. It is also possible that a state will not honor DNR orders from other states.
Check the laws in your state. Although it is always a good idea to print DNR orders on bright-colored paper to be easily spotter, some states may require specific color forms so EMTs know what to look for. Many states require that any at-home deaths be reported to the authorities via a service such as 911 or the police.
DNR order forms
Place Them Where They Are Visible
Copies of advance directives, POLST form, and DNR order should be printed on brightly-colored paper and displayed in an obvious location, such as the refrigerator, where EMTs or other first responders can find them. You can get a wallet card, necklace, or bracelet for when you are not at home.